Lisa is a successful realtor in Austin—not because she’s one of the cool, coffee-house hipsters, but because she does the work. She doesn’t just sell houses—she pays attention. When a young couple tells her they want “a big yard and an easy commute,” Lisa hears what they actually need: We have a toddler now and another baby on the way. We need great schools, quiet streets, and other young families around. So she finds them a home in a neighborhood with rising school rankings, a strong neighbor community, and kids playing soccer on the weekends. Not just square footage—a place they can build a life.

So when Lisa hit her mid-40s and found herself carrying forty extra pounds, she took that same thoughtful, research-first approach to her health.

The appeal of the quick fix
The weight gain had been slow and steady over many years. At first, she blamed it on work. Then kids. Then just life. She didn’t feel awful—but she no longer felt in control. She stopped buying the clothes she loved and started buying clothes that just “worked.” Her closet became a history of her body: sizes 6 through 14, tags still hanging on things she never got to wear. The only items that ever left the hangers were the biggest ones.

She knew she needed a change, but she wasn’t looking for a fad. She was busy. She knew exercise helped, but she had been in a walking group for years and that hadn’t prevented her from putting on the weight. So she read studies. Compared drugs. Followed clinical researchers and dug into real-world results. Although her A1c had climbed to 6.1 (dangerously closed to diabetes) she wasn’t diabetic — yet. Wegovy was the cheaper option, but Mounjaro caught her attention for the right reasons: better trial outcomes, especially for stubborn weight in women with insulin resistance. She discussed it with her doctor. They agreed. She started.

And it worked—fast.

In the first four months, she dropped nearly 20 pounds. By month six, she’d lost 5 more. Her cravings vanished. She didn’t need to white-knuckle anything. Food was less of an issue. She moved through the world with less effort. People noticed. So did she. She was quickly back to size 10 and even a few 8s. She felt better when she left the house.

The end of the road
But after a year, the honeymoon was over. The excitement gave way to a duller kind of routine.

The nausea was low-grade but persistent. Coffee tasted off. Wine was no longer appealing. Food, which had once been joy and comfort, now felt like maintenance. She didn’t hate it—but she didn’t look forward to it either.

And then there was the cost. With insurance no longer footing the bill, she was out over $12,000. Staying on would cost another $60,000 over five years. And another, and another - you could buy a summer home in Wyoming for that kind of money. And that was for no change at all, because she knew the day she stopped would be the day the weight started to come roaring back. She did her homework — most people were off the drug in less than two years, and almost all of them were fatter than when they started. She felt like she had moved into her “Mounjaro body” and had to keep paying the rent every month. Was she really where she wanted to be?

Then came the signs of perimenopause. Unsteady sleep. Dry skin. Mood swings. A general sense of her body changing again—only now, without clear rules.

Lisa had worked hard to get this body. To everyone in town, she looked better. She didn’t want to throw away the gains she had made. But it didn’t feel like she was on a plateau — it felt like she was in a ditch and she couldn’t get out.

A new beginning
That was when her research led to an article on tapering. Could she taper? Could she reduce the dose slowly and start to build her ideal body? It seemed like too much work before, she was busy and had other reasons not to get in shape. But now it seems like she has no choice. As her dad used to say, “If you can’t get out of it, get into it.” This was the long-term getting-in-shape project she had thought of thousands of times, and now there was no way out.

She talked it over with her dad, who said “Hon, that’s not the right way to think of it.” You’re not in a hole, you’re at the beginning of a new life. You’re going to start doing things that will make you feel fantastic, and once you’re off the drug you’ll feel unstoppable.”

“Unstoppable.” Her dad’s words rang in her ears. He’d been encouraging her to get in shape for decades, and now she realized the only thing stopping her was her attitude.

That was when she found me. She booked an appointment and showed up for our Zoom call. She said she wanted help becoming unstoppable. She wanted to start feeling better, more confident, more enthusiastic about the future. What would that look like?

Good question. It’s easy to say the words. It’s another thing to build your daily life around them.

For Lisa, there are a bunch of things to focus on: weight, drugs, hormones, food, exercise, supplements, sleep, doctors, and more. I told her there won’t be any quick fixes, and there’s a lot of uncertainty as she navigates her way through perimenopause, but I’ll be her partner every step of the way. We can make small, incremental improvements according to how much time she’ll dedicate. She’ll need to start with diet, supplements, and cardio exercise, and every small step forward she can reduce the dose of her Mounjaro. There are no guarantees, but she should see good progress in six months, and if all goes well, she’ll be off the drug with no weight gain in 12. But she’ll have to work at it. In return, she’ll start to feel and look better.

I told her that she is still essentially 40 pounds overweight, she just isn’t carrying it. But her body wants those pounds back. So don’t think of this as a 12-month program, think of it as a four-year program. At the end of four years, she’ll look like the picture in the upper right, above. Did she want that badly enough to work for it and support her transformation? She said yes, but I reminded her that this has been there all along, and she went for the drug instead. I said the way out is available, but you need to put in the work every week. You need to make time and prioritize, and not come up with reasons for not showing up.

Fundamentally, GLP-1 agonists are a debt-based approach to losing weight. You get to lose the weight, then you start paying the interest. And the interest lasts forever. So you lose 25 pounds, but then you’re stuck paying $10,000 a year for those pounds forever. And you’re not in better shape.

She realizes that I’m cheaper than the Mounjaro, but she can’t do this on her own.

“Right,” I said. “That’s why we take baby steps at the beginning, because nothing is free.” She needs a big-picture “unstoppability coach,” not a gym coach. She said “Okay, let’s try it.”

I said “When you say ‘try it,’ do you mean six weeks or six months?”

“Six months,” she said firmly.

She was eager to get started, but I told her, “We need to lay the foundation first, carefully and slowly, or you’ll gain weight faster than you can eat an egg-white omelette. Don’t expect miracles. Expect almost nothing visible for the first six months, but expect to start feeling better mentally within a few weeks, because you’re no longer trapped, you’re digging out of prison into your new body and your new life. Baby steps. A year from now, you should be well on your way to a new you.”

“I understand,” she gulped. “This is what I should have been looking for all along. Let’s do it.”

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Don is a tech consultant who has spent too much time staring at his screen and hasn’t ridden his bike in years. He used to race. He used to be on a team. He went on the Thursday evening training rides religiously, got to know all the cyclists in Boulder, and rode for the local cycling club. During his 20s, he enjoyed riding as a category-3 USCF rider and thought about going for a sponsored team, but he joined a startup instead.

The startup was hard work. He put in long hours, made demos, got customers, and became the product manager for a successful enterprise CRM company. Ten years after he joined, the company was acquired, and Don exited with enough money to buy a house.

During this time, he saw less and less of his cycling buddies. By the time he was 40, he had gained 40 pounds and was unhappy with the way he looked. He had stopped riding altogether a few years ago, but he had promised himself he’d get back in shape as soon as the company was sold.

Out of the frying pan into the fire
That didn’t happen. Don had lunch with a Boulder venture capitalist and was quickly convinced to join a new team as a co-founder building an AI-first CRM. He’d barely moved into his new house when he was up to his eyeballs in hiring, pitching, and building as fast as he and his partner could manage.

With no time to exercise, his friend Jim convinced Don to start on Wegovy. Not surprisingly, he lost 20 pounds rather quickly.